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#1
So, I’ve got this buddy who never really was successful in blind dates.
๋‚ด ์นœ๊ตฌ ์ค‘์— ์†Œ๊ฐœํŒ…์—์„œ ๋งค๋ฒˆ ์‹คํŒจํ•˜๋Š” ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์–ด.
* ์†Œ๊ฐœํŒ…์€ blind date / ๋ฏธํŒ…์€ group blind date => blind๊ฐ€ ์•ž์ด ์•ˆ ๋ณด์ด๋‹ค(v), ์•ˆ ๋ณด์ด๋Š”(a), ์žฅ๋‹˜(n)์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด์ฃ . ์•ž์˜ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๋Š” ์ฑ„๋กœ ํ•˜๋Š” ์†Œ๊ฐœํŒ…, ๋ฏธํŒ…์„ blind๋ฅผ ํ™œ์šฉํ•ด ๋ถ€๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
 
#2
He’d probably been on at least like 20 blind dates by his late 20s.
์•„๋งˆ 20๋Œ€ ํ›„๋ฐ˜๊นŒ์ง€๋งŒ ํ•ด๋„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํŒ… 20๋ฒˆ์€ ๋‚˜๊ฐ”์„ ๊ฑฐ์•ผ.
* 20๋Œ€ ์ดˆ๋ฐ˜/์ค‘๋ฐ˜/ํ›„๋ฐ˜ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด์—์š” : early 20s < mid 20s < late 20s => 30๋Œ€, 40๋Œ€ .. ๋Š” ์ˆซ์ž๋งŒ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ”์ฃผ๋ฉด ๋˜์ฃ ? 20s๋ฅผ ์ฝ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€ twenties์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ™œ์šฉ๋ฒ• ์˜ˆ์‹œ๋Š” ๋‚˜ 20๋Œ€ ์ดˆ๋ฐ˜์ด์•ผ. = I'm in my early 20s. / ๊ฑ” 30๋Œ€ ํ›„๋ฐ˜๊นŒ์ง€๋งŒ ํ•ด๋„ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•˜๋Š”๋ฐ. = She was okay by her late 30s but.. 
 
#3
Sometimes, he’d make it to a second or third date, but the girls always ended up saying no.
๊ฐ€๋” ๋‘๋ฒˆ์งธ, ์„ธ๋ฒˆ์งธ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ๊นŒ์ง€ ํ•  ๋•Œ๋„ ์žˆ์—ˆ์ง€๋งŒ ๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ์—ฌ์ž๋“ค์ด ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ–ˆ๋Œ€
* make it์€ ์˜ˆ์ „์— ํ–ˆ์—ˆ์ฃ ! '๋งŒ๋“ค๋‹ค'๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ "๋„๋‹ฌํ•˜๋‹ค, ์„ฑ๊ณตํ•˜๋‹ค, (๋ชจ์ž„์—) ์ฐธ์„ํ•˜๋‹ค" ๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด์—์š”. 
 
#4
It got to the point where he felt completely drained and he thought he’d be single forever.
๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ์ด์ œ ์ด ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์™„์ „ํžˆ ์ง„์ด ๋น ์ง€๋Š” ์ง€๊ฒฝ๊นŒ์ง€ ๊ฐ”๊ณ  ์–˜๋Š” ์ž๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์˜์›ํžˆ ์‹ฑ๊ธ€์ผ๊ฑฐ๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์–ด
* drain๋„ ์ด์ „์— ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์€๋ฐ, "๋ฌผ์ด ๋น ์ง€๋‹ค(๋™์‚ฌ) / ํ•˜์ˆ˜๊ตฌ(๋ช…์‚ฌ)" ๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด์ฃ ? ๋น„์Šทํ•œ ๋งฅ๋ฝ์œผ๋กœ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด drained๋˜์—ˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋‚ด ์—๋„ˆ์ง€/๊ธฐ๋ ฅ ๋“ฑ์ด ๋‹ค ๋น ์ ธ๋‚˜๊ฐ€์„œ ์ง„๋น ์ง„, ๊ธฐ์ง„๋งฅ์ง„ํ•œ ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 
 
#5
I would tell him “Dude, don’t give up. Every jack has his jill.”
๊ทธ๋Ÿด ๋•Œ ์–˜ํ•œํ…Œ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ–ˆ์ง€ "์•ผ ํฌ๊ธฐํ•˜์ง€๋งˆ. ์งš์‹ ๋„ ์ง์ด์žˆ๋Œ€"
 
 
#6
But he’d had enough and just decided to focus on his career.
๊ทผ๋ฐ ์–˜๋Š” ํ• ๋งŒํผ ํ•ด์„œ ์งˆ๋ ธ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์ปค๋ฆฌ์–ด์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ–ˆ์–ด.
* have had enough : ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ had ํ•ด์™”๋‹ค. ์ด์ œ ๊ทธ๋งŒํ•ด๋„ ๋  ์ •๋„๋กœ. => ์œ„ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์€ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ ์–˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ had had enough๊ฐ€ ๋˜์ฃ !
 
#7
After a while, he went on his last blind date.
์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์ข€ ํ๋ฅด๊ณ  ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ ์†Œ๊ฐœํŒ…์— ๋‚˜๊ฐ”์–ด.
 
 
#8
And it was totally different from any other blind dates he’d ever been on.
๊ทผ๋ฐ ์–˜๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๋™์•ˆ ๋‚˜๊ฐ”๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์†Œ๊ฐœํŒ…๋“ค์ด๋ž‘์€ ์™„์ „ํžˆ ๋‹ฌ๋ž๋˜ ๊ฑฐ์•ผ.
 
 
#9
They clicked right at that momemt, as if they were made for each other.
๋‘ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ๋งˆ์น˜ ์„œ๋กœ๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋งŒ๋“ค์–ด์ง„ ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ, ๋งŒ๋‚œ ๊ทธ ์ˆœ๊ฐ„๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์ž˜ ํ†ตํ–ˆ๋Œ€.
* click์€ ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋‹ค๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด์ฃ ! ์ด๊ฒŒ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ์“ฐ์ด๋ฉด ํด๋ฆญํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ "์ž˜ ๋งž๋‹ค/์ž˜ ํ†ตํ•˜๋‹ค" ๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ‘œํ˜„์€ "hit it off"๋‚˜ "get along"์„ ์“ฐ์‹ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š”. 
 
 
#10
And now their wedding is in 2 hours, so, I really gotta get going!
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  2์‹œ๊ฐ„ ๋’ค์— ์–˜๋„ค ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์‹์ด ์žˆ์–ด์„œ ์ด์ œ ๋‚˜๊ฐ€๋ด์•ผ๊ฒ ๋‹ค!
* in + ์‹œ๊ฐ„ : ~์‹œ๊ฐ„ ํ›„์—/๋’ค์—
 
 

 

 

[์˜์ž‘์—ฐ์Šต]

1.๋‚ด ์นœ๊ตฌ ์ค‘์— ์†Œ๊ฐœํŒ…์—์„œ ๋งค๋ฒˆ ์‹คํŒจํ•˜๋Š” ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์–ด.
2.์•„๋งˆ 20๋Œ€ ํ›„๋ฐ˜๊นŒ์ง€๋งŒ ํ•ด๋„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํŒ… 20๋ฒˆ์€ ๋‚˜๊ฐ”์„ ๊ฑฐ์•ผ.
3.๊ฐ€๋” ๋‘๋ฒˆ์งธ, ์„ธ๋ฒˆ์งธ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ๊นŒ์ง€ ํ•  ๋•Œ๋„ ์žˆ์—ˆ์ง€๋งŒ ๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ์—ฌ์ž๋“ค์ด ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ฑฐ์ ˆํ–ˆ๋Œ€
4.๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ์ด์ œ ์ด ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์™„์ „ํžˆ ์ง„์ด ๋น ์ง€๋Š” ์ง€๊ฒฝ๊นŒ์ง€ ๊ฐ”๊ณ  ์–˜๋Š” ์ž๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์˜์›ํžˆ ์‹ฑ๊ธ€์ผ๊ฑฐ๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์–ด
5.๊ทธ๋Ÿด ๋•Œ ์–˜ํ•œํ…Œ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งํ–ˆ์ง€ "์•ผ ํฌ๊ธฐํ•˜์ง€๋งˆ. ์งš์‹ ๋„ ์ง์ด์žˆ๋Œ€"
6.๊ทผ๋ฐ ์–˜๋Š” ํ• ๋งŒํผ ํ•ด์„œ ์งˆ๋ ธ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์ปค๋ฆฌ์–ด์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์ •ํ–ˆ์–ด.
7.์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์ข€ ํ๋ฅด๊ณ  ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์œผ๋กœ ์†Œ๊ฐœํŒ…์— ๋‚˜๊ฐ”์–ด.
8.๊ทผ๋ฐ ์–˜๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๋™์•ˆ ๋‚˜๊ฐ”๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์†Œ๊ฐœํŒ…๋“ค์ด๋ž‘์€ ์™„์ „ํžˆ ๋‹ฌ๋ž๋˜ ๊ฑฐ์•ผ.
9.๋‘ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ๋งˆ์น˜ ์„œ๋กœ๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋งŒ๋“ค์–ด์ง„ ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ, ๋งŒ๋‚œ ๊ทธ ์ˆœ๊ฐ„๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์ž˜ ํ†ตํ–ˆ๋Œ€.
10.๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  2์‹œ๊ฐ„ ๋’ค์— ์–˜๋„ค ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์‹์ด ์žˆ์–ด์„œ ์ด์ œ ๋‚˜๊ฐ€๋ด์•ผ๊ฒ ๋‹ค!
 
 

 

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