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Day 74) ์ด๋ฏธ ๋ฒŒ์–ด์ง„ ์ผ์ด์ž–์•„ ์–ด์ฉ” ์ˆ˜ ์—†์–ด : ์˜์–ด๋กœ 1๋ถ„๋งŒ์— ์Šต๋“ํ•˜๊ธฐ

๋ณธ๋ฌธ

 
#1
During my freshman year, one of my club buddies accidentally sent a text full of gossip about a senior to our group chat.
๋‚˜ 1ํ•™๋…„ ๋•Œ ๋™์•„๋ฆฌ ์–ด๋–ค ์•  ํ•œ ๋ช…์ด ๋‹จํ†ก์—๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ์„ ๋ฐฐ ๋’ท๋‹ด ์นดํ†ก์„ ์‹ค์ˆ˜๋กœ ๋ณด๋‚ธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ์–ด.
 
 
#2
Well, to make the matters worse, that senior was in the group chat too.
์„ค์ƒ๊ฐ€์ƒ ๊ทธ ์„ ๋ฐฐ๋„ ๋‹น์—ฐํžˆ ๊ทธ ๊ทธ๋ฃน ์ฑ„ํŒ…๋ฃธ์— ์žˆ์—ˆ์ง€.
* ๋ฌธ์ œ๋ฅผ(matters) ๋” ๋‚˜์˜๊ฒŒ(worse) ๋งŒ๋“ค๋‹ค = ์„ค์ƒ๊ฐ€์ƒ์œผ๋กœ
 
#3
Back then, there was no ‘unsend/delete’ feature in that app.
๊ทธ ๋•Œ๋งŒ ํ•ด๋„ ๋ณด๋‚ด๊ธฐ ์ทจ์†Œ/์‚ญ์ œ ๊ธฐ๋Šฅ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒŒ ์—†์—ˆ๊ฑฐ๋“ .
 
 
#4
Now, it wasn’t mean gossip, just him complaining about the workload the senior kept dumping on him.
๊ทผ๋ฐ ๋ง‰ ์—„์ฒญ ์š•ํ•˜์ง„ ์•Š์•˜์–ด ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์„ ๋ฐฐ๊ฐ€ ์ž๊พธ ์ž๊ธฐํ•œํ…Œ๋งŒ ์ผ ์—„์ฒญ ๋งŽ์ด ์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ถˆํ‰ํ•œ ๊ฒŒ ์ปธ์–ด.
* Dump ๋Š” ๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ๋‹ค ๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด์ฃ ? ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ํ—ค์–ด์ง€์ž, ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ฐจ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋„ dump๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•˜๋“ฏ์ด์š”. ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋œป์€ '๋– ๋„˜๊ธฐ๋‹ค'๋Š” ๋œป๋„ ์žˆ์–ด์š”. (on someone: ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์—๊ฒŒ) ๋น„์Šทํ•˜๊ธด ํ•˜์ฃ . ์ด ๋งŽ์€ ์ผ๋“ค์„ ํ•œ ๋ช… ์œ„์— ์˜ฌ๋ ค ์Œ“์•„ ๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ด๋ฏธ์ง€๋ฅผ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด๋ณด๋ฉด ๋– ๋„˜๊ธฐ๋Š”๊ฑฐ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ์š”! ํ›„์ž์˜ ๋งฅ๋ฝ์œผ๋กœ ์ด๋ฒˆ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์— ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! 
 
#5
But the damage was done, so he apologized right away.
๊ทธ๋Ÿผ์—๋„ ์ผ๋‹จ ํ”ผํ•ด๋Š” ์คฌ์œผ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๋ฐ”๋กœ ์‚ฌ๊ณผ๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ์ง€
 
 
#6
And another friend filled me in later.
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜์„œ ์ด์ œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์ค‘์— ๋งํ•ด์ค€๊ฑด๋ฐ
* Fill someone in (on something) : (~์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ) ~์—๊ฒŒ ์ง€๊ธˆ๊นŒ์ง€ ์ผ์–ด๋‚œ ์ผ์„ ์ž์„ธํžˆ ๋‹ค ๋งํ•ด์ฃผ๋‹ค
 
#7
At first, he was seriously beating himself up about it.
์ฒ˜์Œ์—” ๊ทธ ์•  ์™„์ „ ์ง„์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ์ž์ฑ…ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋žฌ๋Œ€.
* beat oneself up : ์ž์ฑ…ํ•˜๋‹ค
 
#8
But a wise friend told him, “There’s no use crying over spilled milk.”
๊ทผ๋ฐ ์ข€ ์ง€ํ˜œ๋กœ์šด ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ "์ด๋ฏธ ์—Ž์งˆ๋Ÿฌ์ง„ ๋ฌผ์ด๋‹ค"๋ผ๊ณ  ์กฐ์–ธ์„ ํ•ด์คฌ์–ด.
* ์ด๋ฏธ ์—Ž์งˆ๋Ÿฌ์ง„ ์šฐ์œ (spilled milk)๋ฅผ ๋ณด๊ณ  ์šธ์–ด๋„(cry over) ์†Œ์šฉ์ด ์—†๋‹ค(no use)
 
#9
Well It took him some time to bounce back, but he learned his lessons.
๋ญ ๋‹ค์‹œ ํšŒ๋ณตํ•˜๊ธฐ๊นŒ์ง€ ์ข€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ๊ฑธ๋ฆฌ๊ธด ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ์•”ํŠผ ๊ตํ›ˆ์€ ์–ป์—ˆ์ง€.
* bounce๋Š” ํŠ€์–ด์˜ค๋ฅด๋‹ค, ํŠ•๊ธฐ๋‹ค์ฃ ? back ํ•œ๊ฑฐ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๋‹ค์‹œ ํŠ€์–ด์˜ค๋ฅด๋‹ค ์ฆ‰ ํšŒ๋ณตํ•˜๋‹ค
 
#10
Now he double-checks his texts before hitting send!
์ด์ œ ์นดํ†ก ๋ณด๋‚ด๊ธฐ ๋ˆ„๋ฅด๊ธฐ ์ „์— ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ ํ™•์ธ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋”๋ผ!
 

 


 
 

[์˜์ž‘์—ฐ์Šต]

1.๋‚˜ 1ํ•™๋…„ ๋•Œ ๋™์•„๋ฆฌ ์–ด๋–ค ์•  ํ•œ ๋ช…์ด ๋‹จํ†ก์—๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ์„ ๋ฐฐ ๋’ท๋‹ด ์นดํ†ก์„ ์‹ค์ˆ˜๋กœ ๋ณด๋‚ธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ์–ด.
2.์„ค์ƒ๊ฐ€์ƒ ๊ทธ ์„ ๋ฐฐ๋„ ๋‹น์—ฐํžˆ ๊ทธ ๊ทธ๋ฃน ์ฑ„ํŒ…๋ฃธ์— ์žˆ์—ˆ์ง€.
3.๊ทธ ๋•Œ๋งŒ ํ•ด๋„ ๋ณด๋‚ด๊ธฐ ์ทจ์†Œ/์‚ญ์ œ ๊ธฐ๋Šฅ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒŒ ์—†์—ˆ๊ฑฐ๋“ .
4.๊ทผ๋ฐ ๋ง‰ ์—„์ฒญ ์š•ํ•˜์ง„ ์•Š์•˜์–ด ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์„ ๋ฐฐ๊ฐ€ ์ž๊พธ ์ž๊ธฐํ•œํ…Œ๋งŒ ์ผ ์—„์ฒญ ๋งŽ์ด ์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ถˆํ‰ํ•œ ๊ฒŒ ์ปธ์–ด.
5.๊ทธ๋Ÿผ์—๋„ ์ผ๋‹จ ํ”ผํ•ด๋Š” ์คฌ์œผ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๋ฐ”๋กœ ์‚ฌ๊ณผ๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ์ง€
6.๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜์„œ ์ด์ œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์ค‘์— ๋งํ•ด์ค€๊ฑด๋ฐ
7.์ฒ˜์Œ์—” ๊ทธ ์•  ์™„์ „ ์ง„์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ์ž์ฑ…ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋žฌ๋Œ€.
8.๊ทผ๋ฐ ์ข€ ์ง€ํ˜œ๋กœ์šด ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ "์ด๋ฏธ ์—Ž์งˆ๋Ÿฌ์ง„ ๋ฌผ์ด๋‹ค"๋ผ๊ณ  ์กฐ์–ธ์„ ํ•ด์คฌ์–ด.
9.๋ญ ๋‹ค์‹œ ํšŒ๋ณตํ•˜๊ธฐ๊นŒ์ง€ ์ข€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ๊ฑธ๋ฆฌ๊ธด ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ์•”ํŠผ ๊ตํ›ˆ์€ ์–ป์—ˆ์ง€.
10.์ด์ œ ์นดํ†ก ๋ณด๋‚ด๊ธฐ ๋ˆ„๋ฅด๊ธฐ ์ „์— ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ ํ™•์ธ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋”๋ผ!
 
 

 

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