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Day 43) ๊นป์žŽ๋…ผ์Ÿ ์–‘์ธก ์ž…์žฅ, ์˜์–ด๋กœ <๋ฐ”๋กœ> ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ํ•ด๋“œ๋ฆผ.

๋ณธ๋ฌธ

๋–ผ์–ด์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค.
#1
Well I think it’s tolerable.
๋‚œ ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์ฐธ์„ ๋งŒํ•œ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์€๋ฐ?
* tolerate ์ฐธ๋‹ค + able ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ => tolerable ์ฐธ์„ ๋งŒํ•œ
 
#2
I mean, isn’t it nice that my boyfriend is being thoughtful and caring with good manners?
๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ.. ๋‚ด ๋‚จ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋งค๋„ˆ๊ฐ€ ์ข‹๊ณ  ๋ฐฐ๋ ค์‹ฌ ์žˆ๊ณ  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ ์ž˜ ์ฑ™๊ธฐ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์€ ๊ฑฐ ์•„๋‹ˆ์•ผ?
* thoughtful ์‚ฌ๋ ค๊นŠ์€, ๋ฐฐ๋ ค์‹ฌ ์žˆ๋Š”
 
#3
I think it could boost his reputation, which is also a good thing.
์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ํ‰ํŒ์ด ๋” ์ข‹์•„์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ . ๊ทธ๊ฑด ๋˜ ์ข‹์€ ์ผ์ด์ง€.
* boost ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๊ฒŒ์ž„์—์„œ ๋ถ€์ŠคํŠธ ์“ฐ๋ฉด ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋˜์ฃ ? ๋ญ”๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ‘์ž๊ธฐ ๋Šฅ๋ ฅ์น˜๊ฐ€ ์˜ฌ๋ผ๊ฐ€์ฃ ! ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ํ™• ์˜ฌ๋ฆฌ๋‹ค! ์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋œป์„ ๊ฐ€์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค 
* comma(,) ์ฐ๊ณ  which ๋‚˜์˜ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ ์•ž์— ๋ฌธ์žฅ ์ „์ฒด ๋‹ค ๋ฐ›์•„์ฃผ๋ฉด์„œ ํ‰ํŒ์ด ์ข‹์•„์ง€๋Š” ๊ฑด is also a good thing์ด์ง€! ๋ผ๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ๊ฐ€ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 
 
#4
And having the desire to help others is one of our basic instincts - compassion
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋•๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๋งˆ์Œ์„ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ๊ฑด ์ธ๊ฐ„์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์ธ ๊ฐ์ • ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜์ž–์•„ - ์ธก์€์ง€์‹ฌ!
* instinct๋Š” ๋ณธ๋Šฅ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์•Œ๊ณ  ๊ณ„์‹œ์ฃ ? ์ธ๊ฐ„์˜ '๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์ธ' ๊ฐ์ • ์ฆ‰ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์  ์„ฑ์งˆ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ๋ณธ๋Šฅ์ด๋ž€ ๋ง์ด๋˜์ฃ . ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์˜๋ฏธ์ƒ ์“ธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
* compassion์€ ๋™์ •์‹ฌ ์ฆ‰, ์ธก์€์ง€์‹ฌ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
 
#5
So It’s hard to just ignore someone in trouble right?
๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ์–ด๋–ค ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์–ด๋ ค์›€์— ์ฒ˜ํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋ฌด์‹œํ•˜๊ธฐ ์–ด๋ ค์šด ๊ฑฐ์ง€, ์•ˆ ๊ทธ๋ž˜?
 
 
 
 
๋–ผ์–ด์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋‹ค!
#1
Nox5. Have you “actually” tried to pull apart those marinated sesame leaves?
์•„.๋‹ˆ.์ง€! ๋„ˆ ๊นป์žŽ ์–‘๋…๋œ ๊ฑฐ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋–ผ์–ด๋ณด๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•œ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๊ธฐ๋Š” ํ•œ๊ฑฐ์•ผ?
* marinate๋Š” ์–‘๋…์„ ํ•˜๋‹ค ๋ผ๋Š” ๋™์‚ฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์–‘๋…๊ฐˆ๋น„ ๋งํ•  ๋•Œ ์จ๋ณด์„ธ์š”! 
 
#2
Picking up a leaf with chopsticks takes a lot of effort and concentration.
๊ทธ ์ดํŒŒ๋ฆฌ ์ “๊ฐ€๋ฝ์œผ๋กœ ์žก๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ๋งŽ์€ ๋…ธ๋ ฅ๊ณผ ์ง‘์ค‘์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ๊ฑด๋ฐ!
 
 
#3
Especially when they’re stuck together, it requires even more focus.
ํŠนํžˆ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ถ™์–ด์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์—” ๋”๋”์šฑ ์ง‘์ค‘๋ ฅ์„ ์š”ํ•˜์ž–์•„.
* stick together์ธ๋ฐ ์ˆ˜๋™ํƒœ are stuck๊ฐ€ ๋˜์—ˆ๋„ค์š”
 
#4
I can’t stand seeing my boyfriend put in that much effort for someone else.
๋‚ด ๋‚จ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งŽ์€ ๋…ธ๋ ฅ์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑธ ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฑด ์ฐธ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์–ด. 
* stand๋Š” ์™„์ „ ์ดˆ๋ฐ˜ ์˜์ƒ, 1์ผ์ฐจ์—์„œ I can't stand my bad breath ๊ธฐ์–ต๋‚˜์‹œ๋‚˜์š”? ๊ฒฌ๋””๋‹ค, ์ฐธ๋‹ค ๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด์—ˆ์ฃ ! 
* see๋Š” ๊ฐ๊ฐ๋™์‚ฌ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ๊ฐ๋™์‚ฌ๋Š” 5ํ˜•์‹์—์„œ ๋ชฉ์ ์–ด ๋‹ค์Œ ๋ชฉ์ ๊ฒฉ ๋ณด์–ด ์ž๋ฆฌ์— V(๋™์‚ฌ ์›ํ˜•)์ด๋‚˜ -ing ๋ฅผ ์จ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ์š”, ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— seeing my bf put/putting ๋‘˜ ๋‹ค ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 
 
#5
And the fact that he keeps his eyes on her the whole time just really bothers me.
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ ์นœ๊ตฌ ๊ณ„์† ์ฃผ์‹œํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์ด ์™„์ „ ์งœ์ฆ๋‚˜!
* bother๋Š” ๊ดด๋กญํžˆ๋‹ค, ์ฆ‰ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ์‹ค์ด ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ๊ณ„์† ๊ดด๋กญํ˜”๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑด ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์งœ์ฆ๋‚œ ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋งˆ์ฐฌ๊ฐ€์ง€์ฃ ! ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ํ•œ๊ตญ๋ง์ด ํ•ญ์ƒ 1:1๋กœ ํ•ด์„ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฑด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋‹ˆ ์•„~ ์งœ์ฆ๋‚œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•  ๋•Œ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ๋„ ํ‘œํ˜„์ด ๋˜๋Š” ๊ตฌ๋‚˜~ ์ •๋„ ์•Œ์•„๋‘์‹œ๋ฉด ์ข‹์„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! 
 
 


 

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๋–ผ์–ด์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค.
1.๋‚œ ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์ฐธ์„ ๋งŒํ•œ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์€๋ฐ?
2.๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ.. ๋‚ด ๋‚จ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋งค๋„ˆ๊ฐ€ ์ข‹๊ณ  ๋ฐฐ๋ ค์‹ฌ ์žˆ๊ณ  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ ์ž˜ ์ฑ™๊ธฐ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์€ ๊ฑฐ ์•„๋‹ˆ์•ผ?
3.์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ํ‰ํŒ์ด ๋” ์ข‹์•„์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ . ๊ทธ๊ฑด ๋˜ ์ข‹์€ ์ผ์ด์ง€.
4.๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋•๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๋งˆ์Œ์„ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ๊ฑด ์ธ๊ฐ„์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์ธ ๊ฐ์ • ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜์ž–์•„ - ์ธก์€์ง€์‹ฌ!
5.๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ์–ด๋–ค ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์–ด๋ ค์›€์— ์ฒ˜ํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋ฌด์‹œํ•˜๊ธฐ ์–ด๋ ค์šด ๊ฑฐ์ง€, ์•ˆ ๊ทธ๋ž˜?
 
๋–ผ์–ด์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋‹ค.
1.์•„.๋‹ˆ.์ง€! ๋„ˆ ๊นป์žŽ ์–‘๋…๋œ ๊ฑฐ ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ๋–ผ์–ด๋ณด๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•œ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๊ธฐ๋Š” ํ•œ๊ฑฐ์•ผ?
2.๊ทธ ์ดํŒŒ๋ฆฌ ์ “๊ฐ€๋ฝ์œผ๋กœ ์žก๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ๋งŽ์€ ๋…ธ๋ ฅ๊ณผ ์ง‘์ค‘์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ๊ฑด๋ฐ!
3.ํŠนํžˆ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ถ™์–ด์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์—” ๋”๋”์šฑ ์ง‘์ค‘๋ ฅ์„ ์š”ํ•˜์ž–์•„.
4.๋‚ด ๋‚จ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งŽ์€ ๋…ธ๋ ฅ์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑธ ๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฑด ์ฐธ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์–ด. 
5.๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ ์นœ๊ตฌ ๊ณ„์† ์ฃผ์‹œํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์ด ์™„์ „ ์งœ์ฆ๋‚˜!
 
 
 

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