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Day 72) ์“ธ ๋ฐ ์—†๋Š” ๋ฌธ์ œ์ข€ ๋งŒ๋“ค์ง€ ๋งˆ.. ๊ธ์–ด ๋ถ€์Šค๋Ÿผ ์˜์–ด๋กœ 1๋ถ„ ๋งŒ์— ์Šต๋“ํ•˜๊ธฐ!

๋ณธ๋ฌธ

* ๋ชจ๋“  ์˜์ƒ์€ ์ œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! 
 
#1
You remember my ex-boyfriend, don't you?
๋‚ด ์ „ ๋‚จ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์ง€?
* ๋ถ€๊ฐ€์˜๋ฌธ๋ฌธ(tag question) ๋งŽ์ด ๋“ค์–ด๋ณด์…จ์ฃ ? ์–ด๋–ค ์‚ฌ์‹ค์„ ํ™•์ธ๋ฐ›์œผ๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋™์˜ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ๋“ฑ์„ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณผ ๋•Œ ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋˜๋Š”๋ฐ์š”, ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์‹œ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! ์•ž ๋ฌธ์žฅ์ด ๊ธ์ •์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ๋’ค์—์„  ๋ถ€์ •์œผ๋กœ / ์•ž ๋ฌธ์žฅ์ด ๋ถ€์ •์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ๋’ค์—์„  ๊ธ์ •์œผ๋กœ ๋ฐ›์•„์ฃผ์‹œ๋ฉด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋™์‚ฌ์˜ ํ˜•ํƒœ๋„ be๋™์‚ฌ๋ƒ, ์ผ๋ฐ˜๋™์‚ฌ๋ƒ, have pp๋ƒ, ์–ด๋–ค ์‹œ์ œ๋ƒ(๊ณผ๊ฑฐ/ํ˜„์žฌ/๋ฏธ๋ž˜)์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ๋ฐ, ์‰ฝ๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•ด ์•ž๋ฌธ์žฅ๊ณผ [๋ชจ์–‘์„ ๋˜‘๊ฐ™์ด] ํ•ด์„œ ๋ฐ›์•„์ฃผ์‹œ๋ฉด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. (์œ„ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์—์„  remember๋Š” ์ผ๋ฐ˜๋™์‚ฌ, ๊ธ์ •์œผ๋กœ ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋˜์—ˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ ๋’ค์— ๋ถ€๊ฐ€์˜๋ฌธ๋ฌธ์—์„œ ์ผ๋ฐ˜๋™์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›๋Š” do๋™์‚ฌ๋ฅผ, ๋ถ€์ •ํ˜•์œผ๋กœ ์จ์ฃผ์—ˆ์ฃ .) 
์˜ˆ์‹œ) You haven't read that book, have you? ๋„ˆ ๊ทธ ์ฑ… ์•„์ง ์•ˆ ์ฝ์—ˆ์ง€? / That guy was a doctor, wasn't he? ๊ทธ ๋‚จ์ž ์˜์‚ฌ๋งž์ง€? / She didn't bake that bread, did she? ๋นต ๊ฑ”๊ฐ€ ๊ตฌ์šด ๊ฑฐ ์•„๋‹ˆ์ง€?
=> ์ด๊ฒŒ ๊ธ€๋กœ ๋ณผ ๋• ๋ชจ์–‘์„ ๋งค์นญํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‰ฌ์šด๋ฐ ๋ง‰์ƒ ๋ง๋กœ ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๋ฉด ์•ž์„œ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•œ ๋™์‚ฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ธฐ์–ต์ด ์•ˆ ๋‚˜์„œ ๋ฒ„ํผ๋ง ๊ฑธ๋ฆฌ๋ฉด ์–‘๋ฐ˜, ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์€ ์‚ฌ์šฉ์„ ๋ชป ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”! ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋งŽ์€ ์—ฐ์Šต์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 
 
#2
We had good times, but our fights were really tough.
์ข‹์„ ๋•Œ๋„ ์žˆ์—ˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ์‹ธ์šฐ๊ธฐ๋งŒ ํ•˜๋ฉด ์—„์ฒญ ์‹ฌํ•ด์กŒ์–ด
 
 
#3
Whenever we argued, he'd always bring up past issues.
๋ง์‹ธ์›€ ํ•  ๋•Œ๋งˆ๋‹ค ๊ฑ”๊ฐ€ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋„์ง‘์–ด ๋ƒˆ๊ฑฐ๋“ .
* would + ๋™์‚ฌ์›ํ˜• (~ํ•˜๊ณค ํ–ˆ๋‹ค) : ํ•˜๊ณคํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์˜ would๋Š” ์ง„์งœ ์ง„์งœ ๋งŽ์ด ๋‚˜์˜ค์ฃ ?? ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ์— ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•œ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•  ๋•Œ ์ ˆ๋Œ€ ๋น ์ง€์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ๋“ฑ์žฅํ•˜๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜์ธ๋ฐ์š”, ์•„๋งˆ ์ œ ์˜์ƒ์—์„œ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•  ๋•Œ๋ฉด ๊ณ„์† ๋‚˜์™”๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์ง€๊ธˆ์ฏค ์ต์ˆ™ํ•ด์ง€์…จ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”! :) 
 
#4
Even stuff we'd already resolved like ages ago, he'd always bring them back up.
์ด๋ฏธ ํ•œ์ฐธ ์ „์— ํ•ด๊ฒฐํ•œ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋“ค ๋งˆ์ €๋„ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋„์ง‘์–ด ๋‚ด๊ณค ํ–ˆ์–ด.
* age๋ฅผ '๋‚˜์ด'๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์œผ๋กœ๋งŒ ์•Œ๊ณ  ๊ณ„์…จ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋œป ํ•˜๋‚˜ ๋” ์ถ”๊ฐ€ํ•ด๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค! ๋งŒํ™”์˜ํ™” Ice age(์•„์ด์Šค์—์ด์ง€) ๋‹ค๋“ค ์•„์‹œ์ฃ ? ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ์˜ age๋Š” ๋‚˜์ด๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ์‹œ๋Œ€/-๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋œปํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. (as in ๋น™ํ•˜์‹œ๋Œ€, ๋น™ํ•˜๊ธฐ) ๊ทธ ๊ธฐ๊ฐ„์€ ์–ด๋–ค๊ฐ€์š”? ์™„์ „ ๊ธธ์ฃ ?? ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ages๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•˜๋ฉด [๊ธฐ๋‚˜๊ธด ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๊ฐ•์กฐ]ํ•ด์ฃผ๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ๊ฐ€ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜์„œ ๋’ค์— ago(์ด์ „์—)๋ฅผ ๋ถ™์—ฌ ์ฃผ์—ˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ '๊ธฐ๋‚˜๊ธด ์‹œ๊ฐ„ ์ด์ „์—' ์ฆ‰, '์˜ค๋ž˜์ „์—' ๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด์ฃ . ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ usage๋กœ๋Š” "It feels like ages!"๋ผ๋Š” ๋ง์ด ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ์š” ์ฐฐ๋–ก ๋ฒˆ์—ญ์„ ๋“œ๋ ค๋ณด๋ฉด, "์•„ ์ง„์งœ ๊ฐœ์˜ค๋ž˜๊ฑธ๋ฆฐ๋‹ค!!" ๋ผ๋Š” ๋‰˜์•™์Šค์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! ใ…‹ใ…‹
 
#5
I think he was trying to defend himself, but it just made everything worse.
๋‚ด ์ƒ๊ฐ์—” ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋ณธ์ธ ๋ณ€ํ˜ธํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์€๋ฐ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฑธ ๋” ์•…ํ™”์‹œํ‚ค๊ธฐ๋งŒ ํ–ˆ์ง€.
* ๋””ํŽœ์Šค ์•„์‹œ์ฃ ? ๋ช…์‚ฌ๋กœ ๋ฐฉ์–ด(yellow tail?ใ…Žใ…Ž sorry..)๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ธ๋ฐ์š”, defend๋Š” ๋™์‚ฌ๋กœ ๋ฐฉ์–ดํ•˜๋‹ค, ๋ณ€ํ˜ธํ•˜๋‹ค ๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! 
 
#6
It felt like adding fuel to the fire, you know?
๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋ถˆ๋‚œ ์ง‘์— ๋ถ€์ฑ„์งˆ ํ•œ ๊ฒฉ์ด์—ˆ์–ด.
* ๋ถˆ์— ๊ธฐ๋ฆ„์„ ๋”ํ–ˆ๋‹ค=> ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ง๋กœ๋Š” ๋ถˆ๋‚œ ์ง‘์— ๋ถ€์ฑ„์งˆํ–ˆ๋‹ค!
 
#7
I tried telling him, "let sleeping dogs lie" and all that.
๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ธ์–ด ๋ถ€์Šค๋Ÿผ ๋งŒ๋“ค์ง€๋ง๋ผ๋Š” ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•ด๋ณด๊ธด ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ
* ์ž ์ž๋Š” ์‚ฌ์ž์˜ ์ฝ”ํ„ธ์„ ๊ฑด๋“ค์ง€ ๋งˆ๋ผ ๋ผ๋Š” ๋ง๊ณผ๋„ ์ผ๋งฅ์ƒํ†ตํ•  ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์€๋ฐ์š”, ๊ตณ์ด ์ž๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฐœ๋Š” ๊ฑด๋“ค์ง€ ๋ง๊ณ  ๋ˆ„์›Œ์žˆ๊ฒŒ(lie) ๋ƒ…๋‘ฌ๋ผ(let)๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด ๋˜๋‹ˆ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ง๋กœ๋Š” ๊ธ์–ด ๋ถ€์Šค๋Ÿผ ๋งŒ๋“ค์ง€ ๋ง๋ผ, ๋ถˆํ•„์š”ํ•œ ์ผ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๊ตณ์ด ๋งŒ๋“ค์ง€ ๋ง๋ผ๋Š” ๋ง์ด ๋˜๊ฒ ์ฃ !
 
#8
But he wouldn't listen but kept bringing up the past.
๋‚ด ๋ง ์•ˆ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๊ณ„์† ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋”๋ผ๊ตฌ.
 
 
#9
That's one of the reasons why we couldn’t make it work.
๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์‚ฌ์ด๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์•„์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋˜ ์ด์œ  ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜์•ผ.
* make it work : it(์–ด๋–ค ๊ฒƒ)์„ work(๋˜๋‹ค)ํ•˜๋„๋ก make(๋งŒ๋“ค๋‹ค) => ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„  it์ด relationship์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋ˆˆ์น˜๋กœ ๋Š๋ผ์‹ค ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒ ์ฃ ? ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์‚ฌ์ด ๊ด€๊ณ„๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์•„์ง€๋„๋ก ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์—ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ๊ฐ€ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 
 
#10
I guess some people can't just leave the past in the past.
๊ณผ๊ฑฐ๋ฅผ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ๋กœ๋งŒ ๋‘˜ ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์žˆ๋‚˜๋ด~
 


 

[์˜์ž‘์—ฐ์Šต]

1.๋‚ด ์ „ ๋‚จ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์ง€?
2.์ข‹์„ ๋•Œ๋„ ์žˆ์—ˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ์‹ธ์šฐ๊ธฐ๋งŒ ํ•˜๋ฉด ์—„์ฒญ ์‹ฌํ•ด์กŒ์–ด
3.๋ง์‹ธ์›€ ํ•  ๋•Œ๋งˆ๋‹ค ๊ฑ”๊ฐ€ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋„์ง‘์–ด ๋ƒˆ๊ฑฐ๋“ .
4.์ด๋ฏธ ํ•œ์ฐธ ์ „์— ํ•ด๊ฒฐํ•œ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋“ค ๋งˆ์ €๋„ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋‹ค์‹œ ๋„์ง‘์–ด ๋‚ด๊ณค ํ–ˆ์–ด.
5.๋‚ด ์ƒ๊ฐ์—” ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋ณธ์ธ ๋ณ€ํ˜ธํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์€๋ฐ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฑธ ๋” ์•…ํ™”์‹œํ‚ค๊ธฐ๋งŒ ํ–ˆ์ง€.
6.๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋ถˆ๋‚œ ์ง‘์— ๋ถ€์ฑ„์งˆ ํ•œ ๊ฒฉ์ด์—ˆ์–ด.
7.๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ธ์–ด ๋ถ€์Šค๋Ÿผ ๋งŒ๋“ค์ง€๋ง๋ผ๋Š” ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•ด๋ณด๊ธด ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ
8.๋‚ด ๋ง ์•ˆ ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๊ณ„์† ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋”๋ผ๊ตฌ.
9.๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์‚ฌ์ด๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์•„์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋˜ ์ด์œ  ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜์•ผ.
10.๊ณผ๊ฑฐ๋ฅผ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ๋กœ๋งŒ ๋‘˜ ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์žˆ๋‚˜๋ด~
 
 

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