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Day 65) ์ „ํ™”์œ„๋ณต ์˜์–ด๋กœ 1๋ถ„๋งŒ์— ์Šต๋“ํ•˜๊ธฐ

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#1
About a year ago, something bad happened to my friend Tom.
ํ•œ ์ผ ๋…„ ์ „์— ๋‚ด ์นœ๊ตฌ ํƒํ•œํ…Œ ์•ˆ ์ข‹์€ ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚ฌ์—ˆ์–ด.
* about์€ ๋Œ€๋žต, ์•ฝ ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
 
#2
He was preparing for civil service exam but his girlfriend dumped him out of the blue.
๊ณต๋ฌด์› ์‹œํ—˜ ์ค€๋น„ ์ค‘์ด์—ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ๋‹น์‹œ ์—ฌ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ‘์ž๊ธฐ ์–˜๋ฅผ ์ฐฌ ๊ฑฐ์•ผ.
* dump๋Š” ๋™์‚ฌ๋กœ ๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ๋‹ค ๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ธ๋ฐ์š”, ์—ฐ์ธ ๊ด€๊ณ„์˜€๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์ฐจ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋„ ๊ณง ๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ ์ฐจ๊ณ  ์ฐจ์˜€์„ ๋•Œ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ๋ผ์š”. Did he dump her? / I got dumped. ์ด๋Ÿฐ ํ™œ์šฉ๋„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒ ์ฃ . break up with someone์€ ํ—ค์–ด์ง€๋‹ค ๋ผ๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ์ธ๋ฐ ์ฑ…์ž„์†Œ์žฌ๋ฅผ ๋ช…ํ™•ํžˆ ํ•  ๋•Œ(?) ์ฐจ์˜€๋‹ค, ์ฐจ๋‹ค๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ตฌ๋ถ„ํ•ด ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•ด์ฃผ์‹œ๋ฉด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! 
 
#3
Turns out, she cheated on him with a guy who drives a Porsche.
์•Œ๊ณ  ๋ณด๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๊ทธ ์—ฌ์ž์•  ํฌ๋ฅด์‰ ํƒ€๋Š” ๋‚จ์ž๋ž‘ ๋ฐ”๋žŒ ํ”ผ์› ๋”๋ผ๊ณ  
* ์˜์ƒ์—์„œ ํฌ๋ฅด์‰ ๋ฐœ์Œ์„ ์ž˜ ๋“ค์–ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”! ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์‹ ๋ฐœ์Œ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! ํ•œ๊ตญ์–ด๋กœ ํ‘œ๊ธฐํ•˜๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋ ต๋„ค์š” ใ…Žใ…Ž
 
#4
He was devastated, feeling inferior and like his ego was crushed. 
์–˜๋Š” ์™„์ „ ์ถฉ๊ฒฉ ๋ฐ›์•˜์ง€, ๋งˆ์น˜ ์ž์กด์‹ฌ์ด ๋‹ค ๋ญ‰๊ฐœ์ง€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋งŒํผ์˜ ์—ด๋“ฑ๊ฐ๋„ ๋Š๋ผ๋ฉด์„œ.
* ์—ด๋“ฑ๊ฐ inferiority <-> ์šฐ์›”๊ฐ superiority / ์—ด๋“ฑ๊ฐ์„ ๋Š๋ผ๋‹ค feel inferior <-> ์šฐ์›”๊ฐ์„ ๋Š๋ผ๋‹ค feel superior
 
 
#5
But he decided to use that frustration as fuel to improve himself.
๊ทผ๋ฐ ์ด ์นœ๊ตฌ๋Š” ์ด ์ขŒ์ ˆ๊ฐ์„ ์ž๊ธฐ ์Šค์Šค๋กœ๋ฅผ ์„ฑ์žฅ์‹œํ‚ค๋Š” ๋ฐ์— ์—ฐ๋ฃŒ๋กœ ์“ฐ๊ธฐ๋กœ ๋‹ค์งํ–ˆ์–ด.
 
 
#6
So his heartbreak became the driving force to succeed.
์‹ค์—ฐ์˜ ์•„ํ””์ด ์„ฑ๊ณต์˜ ์›๋™๋ ฅ์ด ๋œ ๊ฑฐ์ง€.
 
 
#7
He studied harder than ever, determined to prove he was better than that Porsche guy.
์ž๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ ํฌ๋ฅด์‰ ๋‚จ์ž์• ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ๋‚ซ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์ฆ๋ช…ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์‹ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ์ง„์งœ ๊ทธ ์–ด๋Š ๋•Œ๋ณด๋‹ค ์—ด์‹ฌํžˆ ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ–ˆ์–ด.
 
 
#8
And guess what? He aced the exam and landed a great job!
๊ทธ๋žฌ๋”๋‹ˆ ์–ด๋• ๊ฒŒ? ์‹œํ—˜๋„ ํ•ฉ๊ฒฉํ•˜๊ณ  ์ข‹์€ ์ง์žฅ์„ ๊ตฌํ–ˆ์–ด! 
* ace๋ฅผ ๋™์‚ฌ๋กœ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋ฉด ํ•ฉ๊ฒฉํ•˜๋‹ค, ์•„์ฃผ ์ž˜ํ–ˆ๋‹ค ๋ผ๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ๊ฐ€ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
* land๋Š” ๋Œ€ํ‘œ์ ์œผ๋กœ '๋•…'์œผ๋กœ ์•Œ๊ณ  ๊ณ„์‹œ์ฃ ? ๋•…์ด๋ผ๋Š” ์ถ”์ƒ์  ์ด๋ฏธ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋™์‚ฌ์— ๋Œ€์ž…ํ•ด๋ณด๋ฉด ๊ทธ ๋•…์— ๋‚ด๋ ค์•‰๋‹ค, ์ •์ฐฉํ•˜๋‹ค ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ด๋ฏธ์ง€๊ฐ€ ์—ฐ์ƒ๋˜์‹ค ํ…๋ฐ์š”, ์–ด๋–ค ์ง์—…์— ์ •์ฐฉํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ณง ๊ทธ ์ง์—…์„ ๊ตฌํ•ด์„œ ์ผ์„ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ๊ฐ€ ๋˜์ฃ ! 
 
#9
It turned out that losing his girlfriend was “a blessing in disguise”, after all.
๊ทธ ๋•Œ ์—ฌ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์žƒ์€ ๊ฒŒ ๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ์ „ํ™”์œ„๋ณต์ด ๋œ ์…ˆ์ด์ง€.
* disguise๋Š” ๋ณ€์žฅ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ์š”, in disguise = ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋ณ€์žฅ ์†์— ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋ง์€ ๊ณง ์ง„์งœ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€๋ ค์ง„ ๊ฑฐ์ฃ ? ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ๊ฐ€๋ ค์ง„, ๋ณ€์žฅํ•œ ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์œผ๋กœ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•ด์ฃผ์‹œ๋ฉด ๋˜๊ตฌ์š”, blessing์€ ์ถ•๋ณต์ด์ž–์•„์š”. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ๋Š” ์ถ•๋ณต์ด ๋ณ€์žฅ ์†์— ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ผ๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ๊ฒ ์ฃ . ์ฆ‰ ์—ฌ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ํ—ค์–ด์ง„ ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ํž˜๋“ค์—ˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์•Œ๊ณ ๋ณด๋‹ˆ ํž˜๋“ฆ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋ณ€์žฅ์— ๊ฐ€๋ ค์ ธ์žˆ๋˜ ์ถ•๋ณต์ด์—ˆ๋˜ ๊ฑฐ์—์š”. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ง๋กœ๋Š” ์ „ํ™”์œ„๋ณต๊ณผ ๊ฐ€๊นŒ์šด ๋ง์ด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! 
 
#10
Sometimes, the worst situations can lead to the best outcomes, like this.
์ด๋Ÿฐ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ฐ€๋” ์ตœ์•…์˜ ์ƒํ™ฉ์ด ์ตœ์„ ์˜ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ ธ๋‹ค์ฃผ๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•˜๋”๋ผ ใ…Žใ…Ž
 
 

[์˜์ž‘ ์—ฐ์Šต]

1.ํ•œ ์ผ ๋…„ ์ „์— ๋‚ด ์นœ๊ตฌ ํƒํ•œํ…Œ ์•ˆ ์ข‹์€ ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚ฌ์—ˆ์–ด.
2.๊ณต๋ฌด์› ์‹œํ—˜ ์ค€๋น„ ์ค‘์ด์—ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ๋‹น์‹œ ์—ฌ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ‘์ž๊ธฐ ์–˜๋ฅผ ์ฐฌ ๊ฑฐ์•ผ.
3.์•Œ๊ณ  ๋ณด๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๊ทธ ์—ฌ์ž์•  ํฌ๋ฅด์‰ ํƒ€๋Š” ๋‚จ์ž๋ž‘ ๋ฐ”๋žŒ ํ”ผ์› ๋”๋ผ๊ณ  
4.์–˜๋Š” ์™„์ „ ์ถฉ๊ฒฉ ๋ฐ›์•˜์ง€, ๋งˆ์น˜ ์ž์กด์‹ฌ์ด ๋‹ค ๋ญ‰๊ฐœ์ง€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋งŒํผ์˜ ์—ด๋“ฑ๊ฐ๋„ ๋Š๋ผ๋ฉด์„œ.
5.๊ทผ๋ฐ ์ด ์นœ๊ตฌ๋Š” ์ด ์ขŒ์ ˆ๊ฐ์„ ์ž๊ธฐ ์Šค์Šค๋กœ๋ฅผ ์„ฑ์žฅ์‹œํ‚ค๋Š” ๋ฐ์— ์—ฐ๋ฃŒ๋กœ ์“ฐ๊ธฐ๋กœ ๋‹ค์งํ–ˆ์–ด.
6.์‹ค์—ฐ์˜ ์•„ํ””์ด ์„ฑ๊ณต์˜ ์›๋™๋ ฅ์ด ๋œ ๊ฑฐ์ง€.
7.์ž๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ ํฌ๋ฅด์‰ ๋‚จ์ž์• ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ๋‚ซ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์ฆ๋ช…ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฒฐ์‹ฌํ•˜๊ณ  ์ง„์งœ ๊ทธ ์–ด๋Š ๋•Œ๋ณด๋‹ค ์—ด์‹ฌํžˆ ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ–ˆ์–ด.
8.๊ทธ๋žฌ๋”๋‹ˆ ์–ด๋• ๊ฒŒ? ์‹œํ—˜๋„ ํ•ฉ๊ฒฉํ•˜๊ณ  ์ข‹์€ ์ง์žฅ์„ ๊ตฌํ–ˆ์–ด! 
9.๊ทธ ๋•Œ ์—ฌ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์žƒ์€ ๊ฒŒ ๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ์ „ํ™”์œ„๋ณต์ด ๋œ ์…ˆ์ด์ง€.
10.์ด๋Ÿฐ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ฐ€๋” ์ตœ์•…์˜ ์ƒํ™ฉ์ด ์ตœ์„ ์˜ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ ธ๋‹ค์ฃผ๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•˜๋”๋ผ ใ…Žใ…Ž
 
 
 

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