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Day 62) ๊น€์นซ๊ตญ ๋งˆ์‹œ์ง€ ๋งˆ : ์˜์–ด๋กœ 1๋ถ„๋งŒ์— ์Šต๋“ํ•˜๊ธฐ

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#1
You know, my sister was really into this Mike guy.
์•ผ ์žˆ์ž–์•„ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์–ธ๋‹ˆ๊ฐ€ ๋งˆ์ดํฌ๋ผ๋Š” ๋‚จ์žํ•œํ…Œ ์—„์ฒญ ๋น ์กŒ์—ˆ๊ฑฐ๋“ ?
* be into something/someone : ~์— ๋น ์ง€๋‹ค, ํฅ๋ฏธ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‹ค, ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ  ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๋‹ค
 
#2
She thought he was sending her all these flirty signals.
๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์™„์ „ ์ž๊ธฐํ•œํ…Œ ํ”Œ๋ŸฌํŒ… ์‹œ๊ทธ๋„ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋Š” ์ค„ ์•Œ์•˜๋‚˜๋ด
 
 
#3
He would smile at her, make jokes, and even brushed against her hand once.
๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์–ธ๋‹ˆ๋ณด๊ณ  ์›ƒ์–ด์ฃผ๊ณ  ๋†๋‹ด ๋˜์ ธ ์ฃผ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋žฌ๋Œ€. ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ์€ ์†๋„ ์Šค์ณค๋‚˜๋ณด๋”๋ผ๊ณ 
* would๋Š” ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ์˜ ์Šต๊ด€์„ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋‚ผ ๋•Œ ์”๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. used to๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ๋ถˆ๊ทœ์น™์ ์œผ๋กœ ํ•˜๋˜ ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ ์Šต๊ด€์„ ์ผ์ปฌ์–ด์š”! ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด 3์ผ์— ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ์”ฉ ์›ƒ์–ด์คฌ๋‹ค๋ฉด used to๊ฐ€ ๋” ์ž˜ ์–ด์šธ๋ฆฌ๋Š”๋ฐ ๋ถˆ๊ทœ์น™์ ์œผ๋กœ ์›ƒ๊ณ  ๋†๋‹ดํ•˜๊ณ  ํ•œ ๊ฑฐ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ would๊ฐ€ ์ข€ ๋” ์ž˜ ์–ด์šธ๋ฆฌ์ฃ . ์‚ฌ์‹ค ๋งค๋ฒˆ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๊น๊นํžˆ ๊ตฌ๋ถ„ํ•˜๊ธด ์–ด๋ ต์ฃ . would๊ฐ€ ์ข€ ๋” broadํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค!
* ์ข€ ๋” ์ง์ ‘์ ์ธ ํ„ฐ์น˜๋ฅผ ์˜๋ฏธํ•˜๋Š” touch๋ณด๋‹ค '์Šค์ณค๋‹ค'๋Š” ๋Š๋‚Œ์„ ์‚ด๋ ค์ฃผ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์œผ๋ฉด ๋ธŒ๋Ÿฌ์‹œ๊ฐ€ ์†๋“ฑ์„ againstํ•ด์„œ ํ›‘๊ณ  ๊ฐ„ ๋Š๋‚Œ์„ ๋– ์˜ฌ๋ฆฌ๋ฉฐ brush against something์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•ด์ฃผ์‹œ๋ฉด ๋ผ์š”! 
 
#4
She started imagining their future together, like going on dates and getting married.. whatever.
๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด์ œ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ญ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋ฏธ๋ž˜๋ฅผ ์ƒ์ƒํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š”๊ฑฐ์•ผ 
 
 
#5
I told her, "Don't count your chickens before they hatch!"
๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ด๋žฌ์ง€: ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๊น€์นซ๊ตญ ๋จผ์ € ๋งˆ์‹œ์ง€ ๋ง๋ผ๊ณ .
* hatch๋Š” ์•Œ์ด ๋ถ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋‹ค ๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด์—์š”! ๋งŽ์€ ์•Œ๋“ค ์ค‘์—์„œ ๋ถ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋Š” ์•Œ๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋ชป ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ฃฝ๋Š” ์•Œ๋„ ์žˆ๊ฒ ์ฃ ? ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ์„ธ์–ด๋ดค์ž ๊ทธ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ ๊ทธ๋Œ€๋กœ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค, ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์˜ˆ์ƒํ•œ๋Œ€๋กœ ์ผ์ด ํ˜๋Ÿฌ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์•Š์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ ๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๊ธฐ ์ „์— ์†๋‹จํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง๋ผ!๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋น„์œ ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋งํ•ด์ฃผ๋Š” ์†๋‹ด์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค!
 
#6
But of course, she wouldn’t listen to me.
๊ทผ๋ฐ ๋ญ ๋‚ด ๋ง ๋“ฃ๊ฒ ๋ƒ. ๋‹น์—ฐํžˆ ์•ˆ ๋“ค์—ˆ์ง€.
* didn't listen to me ๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๊ฑด
1) ๋ณดํ†ต ์–ธ๋‹ˆ๋Š” ๋™์ƒ ๋ง ์ž˜ ์•ˆ ๋“ฃ๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ์ „์ œ + of course๋ผ๋Š” '๋†€๋ž์ง€๋„ ์•Š๊ฒŒ ํ‰์†Œ๊ฐ™์ด ๋‹น์—ฐํžˆ'๋ผ๋Š” ๋ง => ์Šต๊ด€์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋‚ด ์–˜๊ธฐ ์•ˆ๋“ฃ๊ณค ํ•œ๋‹ค ๋ผ๋Š” ๋‰˜์•™์Šค๋ฅผ ์ฃผ๊ณ ,
2) will์€ ๋‚ด ์˜์ง€๊ฐ€ ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋™์‚ฌ์ž–์•„์š”? ๊ทผ๋ฐ ์ด ์–ธ๋‹ˆ๋ผ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ์–ด์ฐจํ”ผ ๋‚ด ๋ง ๋“ค์„ ์ƒ๊ฐ๋„ ์—†๋‹ค, ์ฆ‰ ๋‚ด ๋ง ๋“ค์„ ์˜์ง€๊ฐ€ ์—†๋‹ค๋Š” ๋‰˜์•™์Šค๊นŒ์ง€ ๋‚ดํฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
=> ๊ทผ๋ฐ didn't listen to me๋Š” ์ด๋ฒˆ ์‚ฌ๊ฑด์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ๋งŒ ๋‚ด ๋ง์„ ์•ˆ ๋“ค์—ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ด ๋˜์–ด์„œ ์˜๋ฏธ๊ฐ€ ์‚ด์ง ๋‹ฌ๋ผ์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค!
 
#7
But then, one day, she saw Mike walking with this other girl, holding hands.
๊ทผ๋ฐ ์–ด๋Š ๋‚  ๋งˆ์ดํฌ๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์—ฌ์ž์• ๋ž‘ ์†์žก๊ณ  ๊ฑธ์–ด๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ๋ฅผ ์–ธ๋‹ˆ๊ฐ€ ๋ณธ๊ฑฐ์•ผ.
 
 
#8
Turns out, she's Mike’s girlfriend, and they've been together for months.
์•Œ๊ณ  ๋ณด๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋งˆ์ดํฌ ์—ฌ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ์˜€๊ณ  ๋ช‡ ๋‹ฌ ์ •๋„ ์ด๋ฏธ ์‚ฌ๊ท„ ์ƒํƒœ์˜€๋Œ€
 
 
#9
That’s when she realized she had totally misread the situation.
๊ทธ ๋•Œ ์ด์ œ ์–ธ๋‹ˆ๋„ ์•„ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ์™„์ „ ์ž˜๋ชป ์ดํ•ดํ–ˆ๊ตฌ๋‚˜ ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊นจ๋‹ฌ์•˜์ง€.
* read๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ธด ํ•œ ๊ฑด๋ฐ mis(์ž˜๋ชป)ํ•ด์„œ read ํ•œ ๊ฑฐ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ
1) ๋ง ๊ทธ๋Œ€๋กœ (ํ…์ŠคํŠธ, ๋ฌธ์ž๋ฅผ) ์ž˜๋ชป ์ฝ๋‹ค, ๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ 
2) ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ์ฝ์ง€(read) ๋ชปํ•ด ์ž˜๋ชป ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๋‹ค ๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 
 
#10
And now she's more careful about jumping to conclusions.
์ด์ œ๋Š” ์–ธ๋‹ˆ๋„ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์„ฑ๊ธ‰ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋‹จ์ • ์ง“๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์ข€ ๋” ์กฐ์‹ฌํ•˜๋”๋ผ๊ณ . 
* jump to conclusions : ๊ฒฐ๋ก ์œผ๋กœ ๋›ฐ์–ด๋“ค๋‹ค = ์„ฑ๊ธ‰ํžˆ ๋‹จ์ •์ง“๋‹ค = ์†๋‹จํ•˜๋‹ค
 


 

[์˜์ž‘์—ฐ์Šต]

1.์•ผ ์žˆ์ž–์•„ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์–ธ๋‹ˆ๊ฐ€ ๋งˆ์ดํฌ๋ผ๋Š” ๋‚จ์žํ•œํ…Œ ์—„์ฒญ ๋น ์กŒ์—ˆ๊ฑฐ๋“ ?
2.๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์™„์ „ ์ž๊ธฐํ•œํ…Œ ํ”Œ๋ŸฌํŒ… ์‹œ๊ทธ๋„ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋Š” ์ค„ ์•Œ์•˜๋‚˜๋ด
3.๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์–ธ๋‹ˆ๋ณด๊ณ  ์›ƒ์–ด์ฃผ๊ณ  ๋†๋‹ด ๋˜์ ธ ์ฃผ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋žฌ๋Œ€. ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ์€ ์†๋„ ์Šค์ณค๋‚˜๋ณด๋”๋ผ๊ณ 
4.๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ด์ œ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ญ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋ฏธ๋ž˜๋ฅผ ์ƒ์ƒํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š”๊ฑฐ์•ผ 
5.๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ด๋žฌ์ง€: ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๊น€์นซ๊ตญ ๋จผ์ € ๋งˆ์‹œ์ง€ ๋ง๋ผ๊ณ .
6.๊ทผ๋ฐ ๋ญ ๋‚ด ๋ง ๋“ฃ๊ฒ ๋ƒ. ๋‹น์—ฐํžˆ ์•ˆ ๋“ค์—ˆ์ง€.
7.๊ทผ๋ฐ ์–ด๋Š ๋‚  ๋งˆ์ดํฌ๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์—ฌ์ž์• ๋ž‘ ์†์žก๊ณ  ๊ฑธ์–ด๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ๋ฅผ ์–ธ๋‹ˆ๊ฐ€ ๋ณธ๊ฑฐ์•ผ.
8.์•Œ๊ณ  ๋ณด๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋งˆ์ดํฌ ์—ฌ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ์˜€๊ณ  ๋ช‡ ๋‹ฌ ์ •๋„ ์ด๋ฏธ ์‚ฌ๊ท„ ์ƒํƒœ์˜€๋Œ€
9.๊ทธ ๋•Œ ์ด์ œ ์–ธ๋‹ˆ๋„ ์•„ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ์™„์ „ ์ž˜๋ชป ์ดํ•ดํ–ˆ๊ตฌ๋‚˜ ํ•˜๊ณ  ๊นจ๋‹ฌ์•˜์ง€.
10.์ด์ œ๋Š” ์–ธ๋‹ˆ๋„ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์„ฑ๊ธ‰ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋‹จ์ • ์ง“๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์ข€ ๋” ์กฐ์‹ฌํ•˜๋”๋ผ๊ณ . 
 
 

 

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