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Day 61) ๋‚จ์˜ ๋–ก์ด ๋” ์ปค ๋ณด์ธ๋‹ค: ์˜์–ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋กœ 1๋ถ„๋งŒ์— ์Šต๋“ํ•˜๊ธฐ

๋ณธ๋ฌธ

 
#1
You know, I’ve always thought my friend Emily had it all.
๋‚˜๋Š” ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋‚ด ์นœ๊ตฌ ์—๋ฐ€๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฑธ ๋‹ค ๊ฐ€์กŒ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์–ด.
* ๊ณ„์† ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ํ•ด์˜จ ๊ฑฐ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ have thought(have pp)๋ฅผ, ๊ทผ๋ฐ ๋”์ด์ƒ ์ด ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ all(๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ)์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋‹ˆ had๋ฅผ ์จ์คฌ๋„ค์š”~!
 
#2
She’s rich, smart, and super gorgeous.
๊ฑ˜ ๋ˆ๋„ ๋งŽ๊ณ  ๋˜‘๋˜‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ์—„์ฒญ ์˜ˆ์˜๊ฑฐ๋“ .
 
 
#3
But me? Well, I feel like I’m just hovering around average.
๊ทผ๋ฐ ๋‚œ ํ•ญ์ƒ ํ‰๊ท  ์ •๋„์—์„œ ๋จธ๋ฌด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„.
* hover (๋งด๋Œ๋‹ค) around (์ •๋„์—์„œ) 
 
#4
I’ve never won any prizes, and I have to work hard to get what I want.
์ƒ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ํƒ€๋ณธ ์  ์—†๊ณ , ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์–ป์œผ๋ ค๋ฉด ์ผ ์—ด์‹ฌํžˆ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋‹ˆ๊นŒ.
 
 
#5
So no matter how hard I try to catch up with her, I just can’t.
๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๊ฑ” ๋”ฐ๋ผ์žก์œผ๋ ค๊ณ  ์•„๋ฌด๋ฆฌ ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•ด๋ดค์ž ์•ˆ ๋˜๊ฒ ๋”๋ผ๊ณ . 
* catch up with : (๊ทธ ์นœ๊ตฌ์˜ ์ˆ˜์ค€์„) ๋”ฐ๋ผ์žก๋‹ค 
 
#6
But the other day, she opened up to me about her problems.
๊ทผ๋ฐ ์–ผ๋งˆ ์ „์— ๊ฑ”๊ฐ€ ๋ณธ์ธ์ด ๊ฐ€์ง„ ๋ฌธ์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ ๋‚˜ํ•œํ…Œ ํ„ธ์–ด๋†“๋”๋ผ?
* ๋งˆ์Œ์„ ํ„ธ์–ด๋†“๋‹ค : open (oneself) up to someone
 
#7
Turns out, her parents are never around and she’s like super lonely.
๋ณด๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๊ฑ”๋„ค ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋‹˜์ด ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋–จ์–ด์ ธ ์žˆ์–ด์„œ ์—„์ฒญ ์™ธ๋กœ์šด๊ฐ€ ๋ณด๋”๋ผ๊ณ .
* As it turns out์„ ์ค„์—ฌ์„œ turns out๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งŽ์ด ์”๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. It(์ผ์ด) turn out(๋ฐ”๊นฅ์œผ๋กœ ๋Œ์•„์ ธ ๋‚˜์™”๋‹ค) ์ฆ‰, "์ผ์ด ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋˜์—ˆ๋‹ค" ๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ธ๋ฐ์š”, as๋ผ๋Š” ์ ‘์†์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์จ์คŒ์œผ๋กœ์จ "์ผ์ด ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋˜์—ˆ๋”๋ผ๊ณ ~" / "์•Œ๊ณ ๋ณด๋‹ˆ~" ๋ผ๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ๊ฐ€ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 
 
#8
She’s also struggling to keep up with her parents’ expectations.
๋˜ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋‹˜ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€์น˜์— ๋งž์ถ”๋ ค๊ณ  ์—„์ฒญ ํž˜๋“ค๊ฒŒ ์‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ๋”๋ผ.
* keep (์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋‹ค) up(์œ„์ชฝ ๋ฐฉํ–ฅ์œผ๋กœ, ๋–จ์–ด์ง€์ง€ ์•Š๊ฒŒ) expectation(๊ธฐ๋Œ€) : ๊ธฐ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ๋†’์œผ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๊ทธ ๋†’์€ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€์น˜์— ๋งž์ถฐ ๋ณธ์ธ์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  struggle(๊ณ ๊ตฐ๋ถ„ํˆฌ) ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค => keep up with = ~์— ๋’ค์ง€์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค, ๋”ฐ๋ผ์žก๋‹ค 
 
#9
And she said she’s always envied me for how close I am with my parents.
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์—„๋งˆ์•„๋น ๋ž‘ ์—„์ฒญ ๊ฐ€๊นŒ์šด ๊ฑธ ๋ณด๊ณ  ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋ถ€๋Ÿฌ์› ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๋”๋ผ๊ณ . 
* how + ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ + (S+V)~ : ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ๋Š” ์›๋ž˜ ์ฃผ์–ด๋™์‚ฌ ๋’ค์— ์žˆ์—ˆ์–ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ ์•ž์œผ๋กœ ๋นผ์คฌ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑด ๊ฐ•์กฐ๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•จ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ๊ฐ€๊นŒ์šด์ง€!"
 
#10
So, I guess the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, huh?
๊ทธ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๋ญ.. ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋‚จ์˜ ๋–ก์ด ๋” ์ปค๋ณด์ด๋Š” ๋ฒ•์ด๊ฒ ์ง€?
* fence๋Š” ์šธํƒ€๋ฆฌ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์€ ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„ ๋‹จ๋…์ฃผํƒ์ด๊ณ  ์ •์›์„ ๋งŽ์ด ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ ์šธํƒ€๋ฆฌ ์•ˆ์˜ grass(ํ’€)์ด ๋” greener(ํ‘ธ๋ฅด๋Ÿฌ) ๋ณด์ธ๋‹ค, ๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ด๋‹ˆ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ง๋กœ "๋‚จ์˜ ๋–ก์ด ๋” ์ปค๋ณด์ธ๋‹ค"๊ฐ€ ๋˜๊ฒ ์ฃ . The grass is greener / The grass is greener on the other side ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ค„์—ฌ์„œ ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! 
 


 

[์˜์ž‘์—ฐ์Šต]

1.๋‚˜๋Š” ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋‚ด ์นœ๊ตฌ ์—๋ฐ€๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฑธ ๋‹ค ๊ฐ€์กŒ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์–ด.
2.๊ฑ˜ ๋ˆ๋„ ๋งŽ๊ณ  ๋˜‘๋˜‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ์—„์ฒญ ์˜ˆ์˜๊ฑฐ๋“ .
3.๊ทผ๋ฐ ๋‚œ ํ•ญ์ƒ ํ‰๊ท  ์ •๋„์—์„œ ๋จธ๋ฌด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„.
4.์ƒ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ํƒ€๋ณธ ์  ์—†๊ณ , ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์–ป์œผ๋ ค๋ฉด ์ผ ์—ด์‹ฌํžˆ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋‹ˆ๊นŒ.
5.๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๊ฑ” ๋”ฐ๋ผ์žก์œผ๋ ค๊ณ  ์•„๋ฌด๋ฆฌ ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•ด๋ดค์ž ์•ˆ ๋˜๊ฒ ๋”๋ผ๊ณ . 
6.๊ทผ๋ฐ ์–ผ๋งˆ ์ „์— ๊ฑ”๊ฐ€ ๋ณธ์ธ์ด ๊ฐ€์ง„ ๋ฌธ์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ ๋‚˜ํ•œํ…Œ ํ„ธ์–ด๋†“๋”๋ผ?
7.๋ณด๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๊ฑ”๋„ค ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋‹˜์ด ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋–จ์–ด์ ธ ์žˆ์–ด์„œ ์—„์ฒญ ์™ธ๋กœ์šด๊ฐ€ ๋ณด๋”๋ผ๊ณ .
8.๋˜ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋‹˜ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€์น˜์— ๋งž์ถ”๋ ค๊ณ  ์—„์ฒญ ํž˜๋“ค๊ฒŒ ์‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ๋”๋ผ.
9.๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์—„๋งˆ์•„๋น ๋ž‘ ์—„์ฒญ ๊ฐ€๊นŒ์šด ๊ฑธ ๋ณด๊ณ  ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋ถ€๋Ÿฌ์› ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๋”๋ผ๊ณ . 
10.๊ทธ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๋ญ.. ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋‚จ์˜ ๋–ก์ด ๋” ์ปค๋ณด์ด๋Š” ๋ฒ•์ด๊ฒ ์ง€?
 
 
 

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