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๋ถˆ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•˜๋‹ค
 
#1
I’ve always thought that guys and girls can’t truly be friends.
๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‚จ์ž๋ž‘ ์—ฌ์ž๊ฐ€ ์ง„์งœ๋กœ ์ฐ์นœ์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜๋Š” ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด์•ผ. 
 
 
#2
They might say they’re just friends, but it’s highly likely that one of them is a friend in disguise
๋ญ ์ž๊ธฐ๋“ค ๋ง๋กœ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€ ๊ทผ๋ฐ ๋†’์€ ํ™•๋ฅ ๋กœ ํ•œ ๋ช…์€ ์œ„์žฅ์ผ ๊ฑฐ์•ผ. 
* be likely to V/that : ~ํ•  ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค, ~ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‰ฝ๋‹ค
* a ____ in disguise : ๋ณ€์žฅ์„ ํ•œ ๋ฌด์—‡ 
 
#3
Otherwise, why would so many couples get upset when their lover has a friend of the opposite sex?
์•ˆ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด ์™œ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งŽ์€ ์ปคํ”Œ๋“ค์ด ์ƒ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ์นœํ•œ ๋‚จ์‚ฌ์นœ/์—ฌ์‚ฌ์นœ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚ด๊ฒ ์–ด!
* otherwise ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ ์„œ์•ผ, ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๋ฉด
 
#4
I mean, I’ve seen so many people start out as friends but eventually become a couple.
๋‚˜๋Š” ์ฒ˜์Œ์—๋Š” ์นœ๊ตฌ๋กœ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ์ปคํ”Œ์ด ๋œ ์‚ฌ๋ก€๋ฅผ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์ด ๋ดค๊ฑฐ๋“  
 
 
#5
And let’s face it, there are certain things you can’t share with friends of the opposite gender.
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์†”์งํžˆ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์„ฑ๋ณ„ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ž‘์€ ๋ง ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์ด ๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ์กด์žฌ๋ฅผ ํ•˜์ž–์•„.
* face ๋™์‚ฌ๋กœ ์“ฐ๋ฉด ์ง๋ฉดํ•˜๋‹ค! => ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๊ฐ™์ด ์ง๋ฉดํ•ด๋ณด์ž = ์†”์งํ•ด์ ธ๋ณด์ž
 
 
๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•˜๋‹ค
 
#1
Friendship doesn’t depend on gender. They can be friends just fine.
์šฐ์ •์€ ์„ฑ๋ณ„์ด๋ž‘ ์ƒ๊ด€ ์—†์–ด ๋‚จ๋…€ ์‚ฌ์ด ์นœ๊ตฌ ๋‹น์—ฐํžˆ ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€
* ์œ„ ํ‘œํ˜„ ๋Œ€์‹  I don't see why not. ์ด๋Ÿฐ ํ‘œํ˜„๋„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”! ์™ธ์•Š๋˜? ๋Š๋‚Œ์ด์ฃ !
 
#2
As long as both are mature enough to respect each other’s boundaries.
๋‘˜ ๋‹ค ์„œ๋กœ์˜ ์˜์—ญ์„ ์กด์ค‘ํ•  ์ค„ ์•„๋Š” ์„ฑ์ˆ™ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ๋ง์ด์•ผ
* as long as ~ : ~ ํ•˜๋Š” ํ•œ
 
#3
I mean, the heck, I have many guy friends myself.
์•„๋‹ˆ ๋ญ ๋‚˜๋ถ€ํ„ฐ๋„ ์ผ๋‹จ ๋‚จ์‚ฌ์นœ ๋งŽ์€๋ฐ!
* the heck์€ ์บ์ฅฌ์–ผํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ญ ์–ด์ฉŒ๋ผ๊ณ ! ์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋Š๋‚Œ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค!
* guy friend / male friend ๋‚จ์‚ฌ์นœ <-> female friend ์—ฌ์‚ฌ์นœ (์—ฌ์ž๋“ค๋ผ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋™์„ฑ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ girl friend๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฅด๊ธด ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค!) 
 
#4
They are my good ‘human network’.
๋‹ค ๋‚˜ํ•œํ…Œ ์ข‹์€ ์ธ์  ๋„คํŠธ์›Œํฌ๊ฐ€ ๋˜์ž–์•„!
 
 
#5
And not everything is shared with all of your friends, if you think of it. There are different types of friendships.
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์†”์งํžˆ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด๋ณด๋ฉด ๋™์„ฑ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ž‘๋„ ๋ชจ๋“ ๊ฑธ ๋‹ค ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•„. ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์šฐ์ •๋„ ๋‹ค ๋‹ค๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ธด๊ฑฐ์ง€. 
 
 
 

 

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๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•˜๋‹ค
1.๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‚จ์ž๋ž‘ ์—ฌ์ž๊ฐ€ ์ง„์งœ๋กœ ์ฐ์นœ์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜๋Š” ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด์•ผ. 
2.๋ญ ์ž๊ธฐ๋“ค ๋ง๋กœ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€ ๊ทผ๋ฐ ๋†’์€ ํ™•๋ฅ ๋กœ ํ•œ ๋ช…์€ ์œ„์žฅ์ผ ๊ฑฐ์•ผ. 
3.์•ˆ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด ์™œ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋งŽ์€ ์ปคํ”Œ๋“ค์ด ์ƒ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ์นœํ•œ ๋‚จ์‚ฌ์นœ/์—ฌ์‚ฌ์นœ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‚ด๊ฒ ์–ด!
4.๋‚˜๋Š” ์ฒ˜์Œ์—๋Š” ์นœ๊ตฌ๋กœ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ์ปคํ”Œ์ด ๋œ ์‚ฌ๋ก€๋ฅผ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์ด ๋ดค๊ฑฐ๋“  
5.๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์†”์งํžˆ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์„ฑ๋ณ„ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ž‘์€ ๋ง ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์ด ๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ ์กด์žฌ๋ฅผ ํ•˜์ž–์•„.
๋ถˆ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•˜๋‹ค
1.์šฐ์ •์€ ์„ฑ๋ณ„์ด๋ž‘ ์ƒ๊ด€ ์—†์–ด ๋‚จ๋…€ ์‚ฌ์ด ์นœ๊ตฌ ๋‹น์—ฐํžˆ ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€
2.๋‘˜ ๋‹ค ์„œ๋กœ์˜ ์˜์—ญ์„ ์กด์ค‘ํ•  ์ค„ ์•„๋Š” ์„ฑ์ˆ™ํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด๋ผ๋ฉด ๋ง์ด์•ผ
3.์•„๋‹ˆ ๋ญ ๋‚˜๋ถ€ํ„ฐ๋„ ์ผ๋‹จ ๋‚จ์‚ฌ์นœ ๋งŽ์€๋ฐ!
4.๋‹ค ๋‚˜ํ•œํ…Œ ์ข‹์€ ์ธ์  ๋„คํŠธ์›Œํฌ๊ฐ€ ๋˜์ž–์•„!
5.๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์†”์งํžˆ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด๋ณด๋ฉด ๋™์„ฑ์นœ๊ตฌ๋ž‘๋„ ๋ชจ๋“ ๊ฑธ ๋‹ค ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•„. ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์šฐ์ •๋„ ๋‹ค ๋‹ค๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ธด๊ฑฐ์ง€. 
 
 
 

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