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Day 48) ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์€ ํ•„์ˆ˜๋‹ค VS ์•„๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ์˜์–ด ๋…ผ์Ÿ ์ด๊ธฐ๊ฒŒ ํ•ด๋“œ๋ฆผ

๋ณธ๋ฌธ

For Marriage is Necessary
 
#1
I really want to get married and start a family someday.
๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์„ ํ•ด์„œ ๊ฐ€์ •์„ ์–ธ์  ๊ฐ€ ๊ผญ ๊พธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด.
 
Like, it’s so important to have that one person who’s always there for me, no matter what.
๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์žˆ๋“ ์ง€ ๋‚ด ํŽธ์ด ๋˜์–ด์ฃผ๋Š” ํ•œ ๋ช…์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ๋‚œ ์ง„์งœ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„
* ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ there๋Š” ์–ด๋–ค ํŠน์ •ํ•œ ๊ณณ์„ ์˜๋ฏธํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ๋งˆ์น˜ ๋…ธ๋ž˜ [์„œ์‹œ]์˜ ๊ฐ€์‚ฌ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ํ•ญ์ƒ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ์„œ ์žˆ์„๊ฒŒ~ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์˜๋ฏธ๋กœ ์“ฐ์ธ๊ฑฐ์ฃ  ใ…Žใ…Ž be there์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ I'll be there for you. ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ณ์— ์žˆ์„๊ฒŒ. ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์˜๋ฏธ๋กœ ์“ฐ์ด์ฃ .
 
I guess I learned it from my parents. They just seem incredibly happy together.
์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋‹˜ํ•œํ…Œ์„œ ๋Š๋‚€ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•ด. ๋‘ ๋ถ„์ด ๊ฐ™์ด ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ด๋ณด์ด๊ฑฐ๋“ .
 
And honestly I think the media is always pushing this idea of staying single.
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์†”์งํžˆ ๋ฏธ๋””์–ด์—์„œ ํ˜ผ์ž ์‚ด๋„๋ก ์ข€ ๋ถ€์ถ”๊ธฐ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„
* ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์„ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ๋ฏธํ˜ผ์œผ๋กœ ์‚ด๋‹ค๋Š” stay single / ๋ฏธํ˜ผ๋‚จ,๋…€๋Š” single์ด์ฃ . ๊ฐ€๋” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ง๋กœ๋Š” 'ํ˜ผ์ž ์‚ฐ๋‹ค'๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ ๊ทธ๋Œ€๋กœ ๋ฒˆ์—ญํ•ด live alone์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•˜๋ฉด ์ž์ทจํ•˜๋Š” ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป๊ณผ ๊ฐ€๊นŒ์›Œ stay single๊ณผ ์‚ด์ง ๋‹ค๋ฅด์ฃ . 
 
They only show us the bad parts of marriage but it can be really amazing if you find the right person.
(์‹ธ์šฐ๋Š” ํ”„๋กœ๊ทธ๋žจ์ด๋‚˜ ์ดํ˜ผ ๊ฐ™์€) ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์˜ ์•ˆ ์ข‹์€ ๋ฉด๋งŒ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๋Š”๋ฐ.. ์ œ๋Œ€๋กœ ๋œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋งŒ ์ฐพ์œผ๋ฉด ์ง„์งœ ์ข‹์ง€ ์•Š์„๊นŒ? 
 
 
Against Marriage is Necessary:
 
#1
I don’t think getting married is important to be happy in life.
๋‚˜๋Š” ์ธ์ƒ์˜ ํ–‰๋ณต์— ์žˆ์–ด ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์€ ๋ณ„๋กœ ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด.
 
I see many successful single people around me who are living fulfilling lives without marriage.
๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ์•ˆ ํ•˜๊ณ ๋„ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ๋งŒ์กฑ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ์‚ถ์„ ์‚ฌ๋Š”, ์„ฑ๊ณตํ•œ ์‹ฑ๊ธ€๋“ค์ด ์ฃผ๋ณ€์— ๋งŽ๋‹จ ๋ง์ด์ง€.
* fulfilling ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ๋งŒ์กฑ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด (happiness, reward, contentment, a sense of purpose ๋“ฑ๋“ฑ ๋‹ค ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ๋งŒ์กฑ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์›€์„ ๋งํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค) ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ์ชผ๊ฐœ๋ณด๋ฉด fillํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ full ํ•˜๊ฒŒ fill ํ•œ๊ฑฐ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ์™„์ „ ์ฑ„์šด๊ฑฐ์ฃ !! 
 
Besides, I’m more focused on my career right now.
๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ง€๊ธˆ ์ปค๋ฆฌ์–ด ์Œ“๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ๋” ์ค‘์š”ํ•ด.
 
And marriage can be a trap that limits my growth.
๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์€ ์˜คํžˆ๋ ค ๋‚ด ์„ฑ์žฅ์„ ๋ง‰๋Š” ํŠธ๋žฉ์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์–ด.
 
I also feel like the pressure to get married is outdated and doesn’t apply to our generation.
๋˜ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์„ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์••๋ฐ•์„ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ๋˜๊ฒŒ ๊ตฌ์‹œ๋Œ€์ ์ด๋ผ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์„ธ๋Œ€๋ž‘์€ ๋งž์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„. 
* outdated : ์–ผ๋งˆ์ „ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธํ†ต์žฅ ์˜์ƒ์—์„œ ๋‚˜์™”๋˜ old-fashioned์™€ ๋น„์Šทํ•˜์ฃ ! => ๊ตฌ์‹œ๋Œ€์ ์ธ, ๋‚ก์€ 
 
 


 

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ํ•„์ˆ˜๋‹ค
1.๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์„ ํ•ด์„œ ๊ฐ€์ •์„ ์–ธ์  ๊ฐ€ ๊ผญ ๊พธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด.
2.๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์ด ์žˆ๋“ ์ง€ ๋‚ด ํŽธ์ด ๋˜์–ด์ฃผ๋Š” ํ•œ ๋ช…์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ๋‚œ ์ง„์งœ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„
3.์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋‹˜ํ•œํ…Œ์„œ ๋Š๋‚€ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•ด. ๋‘ ๋ถ„์ด ๊ฐ™์ด ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ด๋ณด์ด๊ฑฐ๋“ .
4.๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์†”์งํžˆ ๋ฏธ๋””์–ด์—์„œ ํ˜ผ์ž ์‚ด๋„๋ก ์ข€ ๋ถ€์ถ”๊ธฐ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„
5.๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์˜ ์•ˆ ์ข‹์€ ๋ฉด๋งŒ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๋Š”๋ฐ.. ์ œ๋Œ€๋กœ ๋œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋งŒ ์ฐพ์œผ๋ฉด ์ง„์งœ ์ข‹์ง€ ์•Š์„๊นŒ? 
์•„๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
1.๋‚˜๋Š” ์ธ์ƒ์˜ ํ–‰๋ณต์— ์žˆ์–ด ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์€ ๋ณ„๋กœ ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด.
2.๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ์•ˆ ํ•˜๊ณ ๋„ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ๋งŒ์กฑ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ์‚ถ์„ ์‚ฌ๋Š”, ์„ฑ๊ณตํ•œ ์‹ฑ๊ธ€๋“ค์ด ์ฃผ๋ณ€์— ๋งŽ๋‹จ ๋ง์ด์ง€.
3.๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ง€๊ธˆ ์ปค๋ฆฌ์–ด ์Œ“๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ๋” ์ค‘์š”ํ•ด.
4.๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์€ ์˜คํžˆ๋ ค ๋‚ด ์„ฑ์žฅ์„ ๋ง‰๋Š” ํŠธ๋žฉ์ด ๋  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์–ด.
5.๋˜ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์„ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์••๋ฐ•์„ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ๋˜๊ฒŒ ๊ตฌ์‹œ๋Œ€์ ์ด๋ผ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์„ธ๋Œ€๋ž‘์€ ๋งž์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„. 
 
 
 

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