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Day 20) ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒŒ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ.. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒƒ๋„ ์•„๋‹Œ๋ฐ! ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ๋‰˜์•™์Šค๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ง„ ํ”ํ•œ ์˜์–ด ํ‘œํ˜„?

๋ณธ๋ฌธ

 
 
 
#1 
Hey, it’s fine. These things happen. It’s not like it’s the end of the world.
์•ผ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„~ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ผ๋„ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ง€. ๋ญ ์„ธ์ƒ์ด ๋๋‚œ ๊ฒƒ๋„ ์•„๋‹ˆ์ž–์•„!
* ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ง์ด๋ž‘ ํ‘œํ˜„ ๋ฐฉ์‹์ด ๊ต‰์žฅํžˆ ๋น„์Šทํ•˜์ฃ ? These things = ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ผ๋“ค๋„ happen = ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๋Š”๊ฑฐ์ง€~ 
 
#2
I know. It’s not like I don’t know that, it’s just.. I just feel so guilty.
์•Œ์•„. ๋‚˜๋„ ๊ทธ๊ฑธ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๋Š” ๊ฑด ์•„๋‹Œ๋ฐ.. ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ.. ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์ฃ„์ฑ…๊ฐ์ด ๋“ค์–ด.
* it's just... : ์ด ํ‘œํ˜„์€ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋ญ”๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ์ง„์‹ฌ์ด ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ ์“ฐ์ด๋Š”๋ฐ์š”, It's just...๋ฅผ ๋จผ์ € ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ง๋์„ ํ๋ฆฌ๋ฉด์„œ ํ‹ˆ์„ ์ข€ ๋งŒ๋“  ๋‹ค์Œ์— ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๋ง์„ ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! "๊ทธ๋ƒฅ..." ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ง์„ ์ž ๊น ํ๋ ค์„œ ๋ญ”๊ฐ€ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๋ง์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋Š๋‚Œ์„ ์ฃผ๋Š” ํ‘œํ˜„์ด๋ผ์„œ ๋ฏธ๋“œ์—์„œ ์•„์ฃผ์•„์ฃผ ๋งŽ์ด ๋‚˜์™€์š”! 
 
 
#3
You gotta stop that. It’s not like YOU did anything wrong.
๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐ์ข€ ๊ทธ๋งŒํ•ด! ๋”ฑํžˆ ๋„ค๊ฐ€ ์ž˜๋ชปํ•œ ๊ฒƒ๋„ ์•„๋‹ˆ์ž–์•„.
* ์›๋ž˜ ์“ฐ๋ ค๋˜ ํ‘œํ˜„์€ stop beating yourself up. ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์œ ์šฉํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„์ผ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์„œ ๋„ฃ์œผ๋ ค๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์ด ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๊ธธ์–ด์ ธ์„œ ๋ฐ”๊ฟจ๋Š”๋ฐ์š”, beat oneself up์€ ์Šค์Šค๋กœ๋ฅผ ๋•Œ๋ฆฌ๋‹ค ์ฆ‰, ์ž์ฑ…ํ•˜๋‹ค ๋ผ๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์„œ๋Š” ์ž์ฑ… ์ข€ ๊ทธ๋งŒํ•ด~~ ๋ผ๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ๊ฐ€ ๋˜๊ฒ ์ฃ ?
 
 
#4
You know what? You’re right. It’s not like it’s my fault or anything.
ํ  ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ๋ณด๋‹ˆ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋„ค? ์ด๊ฒŒ ๋‚ด ์ž˜๋ชป์€ ์•„๋‹ˆ์ง€. 
* it's not like๋Š” or anything์ด๋ž‘ ์ž์ฃผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์“ฐ์—ฌ์š”. not์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋ถ€์ •์–ด๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๊ธฐ์— something๋ณด๋‹ค anything์ด ์“ฐ์ด๊ฒŒ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐ๊ตฌ์š”, '๋ญ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๊ฑฐ'๋ผ๋Š” ํ•ด์„์„ ๋„ฃ์–ด์ฃผ์‹œ๋ฉด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "์ด๊ฒŒ ๋ญ ๋‚ด ์ž˜๋ชป์ด๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ญ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๊ฑด ์•„๋‹ˆ์ž–์•„?" ์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋‰˜์•™์Šค์ธ๋ฐ ์ฒด๊ฐ์ด ๋˜์‹œ๋‚˜์š”??
 
 
#5
There you go. Let’s go grab some beer. It’s on me.
๊ทธ๋ž˜ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋‚˜์™€์•ผ์ง€! ์•ผ ๋‚˜๊ฐ€์ž ์ˆ  ์‚ฌ์ค„๊ฒŒ
* there you go!๋Š” '๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€! ๊ทธ๊ฑฐ์•ผ!'๋ผ๋Š” ๋Š๋‚Œ์œผ๋กœ ํ•œ ๋ฉ์–ด๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์ž˜ ๋ถ™์—ฌ๋‘์‹œ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•„์š”! There he/she goes ๋“ฑ์œผ๋กœ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ”์„œ๋„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 
* It's on me๋Š” ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! ๋ฐ”๋กœ ์จ๋จน์„ ๋ฉ์–ด๋ฆฌ์ฃ ? (์นœํ•œ ์นœ๊ตฌํ•œํ…Œ๋Š” it's on YOU๋„ ์จ๋ณด์„ธ์š” ใ…Žใ…Ž ๋‹ˆ๊ฐ€ ์‚ฌ๋ผ!) 
 
 
 

[์˜์ž‘์—ฐ์Šต _ ํฐ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋กœ ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ]

1. ์•ผ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„~ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ผ๋„ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ง€. ๋ญ ์„ธ์ƒ์ด ๋๋‚œ ๊ฒƒ๋„ ์•„๋‹ˆ์ž–์•„!
2. ์•Œ์•„. ๋‚˜๋„ ๊ทธ๊ฑธ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๋Š” ๊ฑด ์•„๋‹Œ๋ฐ.. ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ.. ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์ฃ„์ฑ…๊ฐ์ด ๋“ค์–ด.
3. ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์ƒ๊ฐ์ข€ ๊ทธ๋งŒํ•ด! ๋”ฑํžˆ ๋„ค๊ฐ€ ์ž˜๋ชปํ•œ ๊ฒƒ๋„ ์•„๋‹ˆ์ž–์•„.
4. ํ  ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ๋ณด๋‹ˆ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋„ค? ์ด๊ฒŒ ๋‚ด ์ž˜๋ชป์€ ์•„๋‹ˆ์ง€. 
5. ๊ทธ๋ž˜ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋‚˜์™€์•ผ์ง€! ์•ผ ๋‚˜๊ฐ€์ž ์ˆ  ์‚ฌ์ค„๊ฒŒ
 
 
 

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